Commenting vs. making

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- I found myself especially frustrated with my past self, whose default was to complain and/or comment, then wonder why things didnât magically get better.
- It is, of course, much easier to complain about how things are bad rather than do anything about it, which is why people prefer to complain.
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Itâs also easy to confuse being âhelpfulâ with being helpful. A lot of people think theyâre âadding valueâ by nitpicking, or supplying unsolicited takes, when theyâre actually just draining energy and momentum.
- At internet scale, simply by doing anything, you expose attackable surface area to furor you never imagined. Most people are shocked and drop out of making things, preferring to stay safe. Those who make it through often look like startup founders, battle-scarred and tone-deaf from being attacked for so many years.
- Iâve come to believe that working through something is the only way to explore the idea maze. Everything else is commentary. Iâve mostly stopped sharing unsolicited âhelpfulâ just-a-thoughts and comments at work. I save them for Twitter, the primordial soup of commentary from which living things occasionally emerge.